Episode 13: Activating Your Relationship Potential with Magnetizing and Manifesting Your Ideal Partnership, feat. Heidi B

podcast relationships Nov 10, 2020

Activating Your Relationship Potential with Magnetizing and Manifesting Your Ideal Partnership

I'm Kendall Merritt, your host, and the founder of Soul Saturations. Today we give the final teaser for this epic container all about Magnetizing and Manifesting Your Ideal Partnership.

Heidi and I are both super passionate about this because we have both gone from dating Fuck bois to landing ROCK SOLID, super juicy relationships with Men we truly adore… and they adore us! Just because we are in these amazing relationships do not mean that it is easy.
 
Whether you are ready to kiss the fuck bois goodbye or up level your current relationship, or even just learn some new ways to connect with yourself, these are THE FUNDAMENTAL skills to take it to the next level and consistently give you things to learn and grow with!
 
This chat is all about what it means to magnetize and manifest your ideal partnership so let's get started!
 
Kendall: I want you to focus on the relationship that you have and you are currently in, or the one that your soul truly desires and I want you to think about if your relationship was fully activated and you were at your highest relationship potential, what would that feel like tune in and just feel that in your space, in your energy and focus on this being fully present as if it's already, or because if your soul desires it baby, it is yours.
 
If you work with your guides, your teams, your angels tune in and ask them to guide you on the right path to make that possible and we ask that any energy that is no longer serving us and holding us back from creating this new reality, the cleanse cleared and from us at this time, and we do this in so much love and so much gratitude.
 
When we look at this container, when we were setting this up, we really said, okay, what are those foundational fundamental skills tools, things that we need to have, whether or not you are working on that relationship with yourself, you are working on that relationship with somebody that you're dating, or if you are already in partnership, just knowing that it takes that consistent effort. And the other thing that was really coming through for me is you don't know what you don't know. Sometimes you think you've hit the highest level and you think you've hit a ceiling but there's so much more to experience if you take the time to invest in yourself and in your relationship.
 
Heidi: What I really love about this is the way that we approached putting together this program was really based on something you and I both believe in, but I know that you explicitly outlined as one of your core tenants of your philosophy, which is like, we don't settle. When you combine the fact of like, not settling with not knowing what you don't know, you really open yourself to like limitless possibilities.
 
Kendall: There's a lot of fear around investing and learning and doing things differently and I think part of the things that's come through it when I've been having these conversations is there's some fear that exists of "Oh my God, am I doing it wrong? Does that mean if I'm looking to activate my relationship potential that I'm doing something wrong, then my relationship bad?" which that fundamentally is our human , getting in the way. We always look at things as doing things right or wrong or good or bad and when we can shift to choose a different perspective and say, well, how do I just create more flow, more alignment, something that's going to uplevel me in a different space. It's not that you're doing anything wrong, it's just calling in that next level of potential.
 
Heidi: I love that we're kind of talking about something that is truly limitless as far as like how much on fire you can be in your relationship or how much on fire you can be about the people that you're dating, because you're right.
 
Kendall: I think that shows up a lot in the dating space, right? Like when we're dating, when we're looking for the next one or the right one or whatever the you want to call it, your soul partner, like soulmate, whatever that is when we're in that dating space, it's kind of like, you don't know what you don't know. When you're dating and you're going through and you're showing up, you're showing up as your best self, but what are the skills that you can put into place? How do you start to weed out the fuckboys and say like, how do I start to call in those men that are going to honor me and see me for who I am and what I actually have to offer in this relationship?
 
Heidi: I love this because we have some good tools for this and you have to have some clarity about the type of man you're calling in or partner that you're calling in and you know who you can rule out. It becomes a lot easier to rule out somebody who's not good for you with, or who's not your person. When, you know, look, my person I'm looking for these five things. They are non-negotiable, you know, you have the top side, I consider it, I call it the ideals list. It's basically, what do you want? What is in an ideal world where you could have anything, what is it that you want? I love using that tool for people who are on the dating scene, because I do think it's such a valuable kind of benchmark to come back to, but it's also a great tool for being in your relationship.
 
Kendall: It's a great, you know, even just using the example of like your sexual foundation and your sexual relationship, I can't tell you how many women I work with. They're like, God, I want a partner that just like that. I want this incredible sexual magnetism that I want this incredible central chemistry. Well, then the question is, well, how, how are you working on that on your own? What's your self pleasure practice look like? How often are you in touch with your own sexual chemistry, with your own sexual minuses? Because if you're somebody who like not paying any attention to their own body, it is unlikely that you're going to call in this like intense, like insane fire chemistry, right? It's like we have to be checking in on our own, I'll call it chemistry, honors chemistry in order to like ramp that up and attract what we're looking for.
 
Kendall: One awesome thing about this group element is that we get to hold each other accountable and be like, baby girl, look in the mirror, are you actually are your actions and behaviors repeating something of a pattern or something that's different than what you want. We do some of that work and we work through that to be able to say, what are those things that you believe to be true? Your energetic anchor points, those beliefs that are building your house of consciousness and then saying, well, okay, if you want to believe something different, how are you going to shift those actions to be able to do it? But how committed are you? Because you may say, Oh, I want this man who's rich or I want somebody who's going to sexually devour me. Okay, well, how are your actions aligning to that?
 
I think before we wrap this up is when we start to think about the ideals list and calling that in, it's like, what do you really want? What do you really desire? And then when you start to think of it, it's like thinking of it in that present tense of like, I already have this, this is already mine and starting to feel what it feels like. That's going to shift your actions and your choices and your behaviors to do things in a different way so that you start to show up in a way that's aligned with that.
 
Heidi: My favorites around that is the idea of like, look, I feel energized and inspired in my relationship. I'm so grateful that I feel so safe and secure in my relationship that I can talk to my partner about anything.
 
We got to leave here. We're going into holiday season and holiday season everybody's emotions are in overload. There's all sorts of pressure. and things happening and energy flying around everywhere. This is the perfect time to get in because you literally will walk out of this container, feeling confident and skilled to put some boundaries in place. Even if that's setting some boundaries with your family, or your partner's family and how do you have some of those tricky conversations where no, like your mother-in-law can't stay with you for two weeks. Sometimes you need some of those skills to like just refocus, especially in this time of the year. What a beautiful way to like close out 2020 with an intentionality and some enthusiasm and have your skills ready to rock for 2021. So we can't wait. We love you. You guys are the best!
 
This is such an epic and transformational container…. We would be so honored to share this space with you!
 
If you want to know more, reach out to Heidi or I for more information…
And if you’re ready to sign up, you can do that here! 
 
In light, in love, and in gratitude, K
 
 
 
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